I have a lot of experience in this area. The best thing to do when one's life falls apart is to gain the understanding that one was lacking although sometimes you may be evolving faster than those and that around you and it is *falling away* from you. Another possibility is that one has been living a fiction and not the truth in this case reality will intrude upon your illusion. Another very common possibility is that you have failed to evolve and the unavoidable impetus has come to evolve, which is why preemptive evolution is a good thing. Lastly life tends to fall apart when we resist change, otherwise it is simply change. It is important to understand the Supreme Evolutionary Principle http://buddha.me/buddha_evolution.htm

Have faith in the Benevolent All Pervading intelligence (BAPI - which ironically turned out to mean Father in India but didn't realize when I first conceived it) the mysterious force working behind the scenes. that has a subtle influence via the Casimir Polder Force / Effect a revelation that this channel known as Richard bestowed upon the world. http://thematrix.me/gerber/ and is on a number of my other web sites.

As for our collective world falling apart there is much to understand. One is the "feels good movement" which fails to address the technical reality and the technical side of things and the relative realm where we have "mass" and strict adherence to math, logic, truth and reason not fantasy. 16 years ago I started the initiative to end disease http://intelegen.com/nutrients/index.htm which based on new scientific understanding which resulted from different motivations and intentions than the vast majority of scientists and researchers, bless them, opened a different path and greater understanding not available to those that followed the status quo path to obtain the status quo credentials. So had the celebrity, media, authors, leadership, management, and the general population fully supported it and the director of it we would have eliminated huge costs, and a lot of needless suffering. The campaign has been very successful it is just taking a lot longer than it really needs to, mostly because everyone has their attention not in the best place. You may also read http://Nutrient.me/ which highlights the new field of Bio Logic Systems Science one developed and used to discern a number of discoveries that were later validated by other researchers.

The other cause of our collective world and therefore your world falling apart is that the design and management of world's monetary and financial systems which create passive violence, especially the gambling part which results in scarcity. I articulated this in the ATCA Socratic dialog 4 years ago and in other dialogs and stated if it was not immediately addressed with a effort for a smooth transition to the new systems, http://CoinAge.me/ the current systems would be brought to collapse forcing the adoption of systems that do not create passive violence. You see the current systems were based on fictions that the truth could easily destroy if properly disseminated. Since everyone in a position of influence or responsibility was too comfortable to care and did not want to relinquish their attachments and being too vested in the current systems, the truth was artfully disseminated with surgical precision to bring the reality to light. I worked for the banking industry for 7 years and did a little bit of everything, which included doing the processing for 17 financial systems on a daily basis, and later developing and audit program for federally charted banks and credit unions and have worked in accounting and finance systems for about 12 years this allowed be to see through all the appearances to the reality that it was really just an accounting system. If you want to gain great insight and save your world please read http://illusions.me/money/ by gaining this understanding you can each help individually to bring the collective change necessary to put our world and your life back together.

The new theme of which One is the creator and author of is Sustainable Holistic Science Based economics http://coinage.me/list.htm please read the articles presented here to gain the understanding that is lacking and you can play a role in restoring the world to balance, the return to Paradise as depicted here http://Gaia.me/
 

Lastly, a people united rule, divided are ruled. So other than eliminating the fictions that divide us we need a more sophisticated self government infrastructure. What we have is the illusion of government / democracy and we need to establish one in reality. Please read here for understanding http://illusions.me/government/ it's all about Universal Participatory Self Government, Decentralized Collective Control with Autonomous Feedback Systems for Self Regulation and Control. Then for the actual doing read this http://OneClickRevolution.com/ and other links found in the Revolutionary Wave http://goowave.com/revolution/ this is all complemented by this theme: The Citizens, Shareholders, and Consumers Shall Ascend to the Throne as One http://consumers.me/